Eileen’s Lesson: Resolve to Simplify: 15 Tips for 2025

What is your New Year’s resolution? In 2024, mine was to simplify my life. As a result, my husband and I downsized from our 3,000 square foot house of 31 years to a 1,200 square foot condominium. I’m not going to lie; it seemed like a nearly impossible feat this time last year. Thirty-one years, […]
Eileen’s Lesson: Are you keeping peace within your pack?

My husband and I are little dog people. So is my aunt. However, my brother and his wife are big dog people. One night, we had a family dinner, and everyone brought their dogs — two small and one big dog. It was the first time all three dogs were together, as my brother’s dog was still […]
Eileen’s Lesson Halloween Horror Tales: Is “groupthink” casting a spell on your team?

Can you imagine turning your back for one second on your 4-year-old only to find him lunging out the garage side door of your house? In a flash, he grabs a broom, using the stick side to click the garage door opener. He then runs over to grab the lid of the garage door, allowing […]
Eileen’s Lesson Verify & Clarify: The Cure for Miscommunication

The other day, I was out to lunch with a colleague. We both ordered our favorite chicken salad and asked for the dressing on the side. We love that salad, as it has about 20 different ingredients, and the flavors blend really nicely together. Twenty minutes later, four servers came out of the kitchen with trays upon […]
Eileen’s Lesson: Before you panic, consider how you can pivot.

Hubby and I were recently on a train in Italy, and we fell asleep. When we woke up from our nap about 10 minutes after our train was due to arrive, we panicked, thinking we had missed our stop, so we quickly gathered our belongings and left. It turns out the train was actually running behind, and […]
Eileen’s Lesson: Are you susceptible to the halo effect?

As many know, we had a dog, Jada, who passed a few years ago. Hubby and I decided to get a dog one day, but one day wasn’t defined, and we had a lot of “stuff” we wanted to do before we got a dog. But I was on Facebook about a month ago, and […]
Eileen’s Lesson: What do you do to keep yourself organized?

Many years ago, we went on a cruise for our family vacation. The vacation was nice, and when we returned to the port in Florida, we hopped into a cab and headed to the airport for our flight home. Once at the airport, we realized we had left the camera (with a vacation full of pictures) […]
Eileen’s Lesson: Teamwork Makes Dream Work

Some may think of me as a dog person, but over the course of my life, I’ve had three cats and one dog. Cats are interesting. Especially when you have two at the same time. They’re actually quite cunning, calculating, and smart. While having the cats, we had many times when things we thought we […]
When Common Sense Leaves You High & Dry

When common sense leaves you high and dry, an HR policy has you covered. One day, after a business luncheon, I returned to my office and discovered an email from an acquaintance titled, “You left your umbrella.” Although it was an overcast day, it wasn’t raining, so I was surprised that I had left my […]
Here’s Your Spring Training Tip

One summer, when my son was seven years old, he spent a few weeks with family in New Jersey. My son was a HUGE Oriole’s fan. Those in New Jersey are more of the Yankees’ persuasion. Well, let’s just say that my son made an unflattering comment about the Yankees in front of a group […]