Eileen’s Lesson: Take time to unwind and return with fresh eyes and a fresh perspective

In 2009, our daughter was on the edge of teenagerhood. We traveled as a family to New York for a few days and took a tour of the NBC studio. Upon entering the tour, you are, of course, required to leave all belongings in a locker. So no picture taking. We proceeded on our tour […]
Eileen’s Lesson: New Doesn’t Automatically Mean Better

Until recently, we were the proud owners of a big-button AT&T phone. In case you’ve never seen one, it’s large, beige, and connected to an actual landline. A while back, I had some friends over, and they brought their “tweenagers.” The kids spotted the phone and were amazed. “What is that? Does it work?” they […]
Eileen’s Lesson Emotional Support Animal vs. Service Animal

Since my book came out (No, You Can’t Bring Your Ferret to Work: HR Tales of the Unexpected), I’ve had a lot of questions, specifically about the title. So I’m here to answer them. Did someone really try to bring a ferret into work? I’m sure someone has. The real story was told to me by […]
Eileen’s Lesson Here’s my pet peeve. And, you’re welcome.

Do you have any pet peeves? We all do. Let me give you an example of one of mine. Many times, when I enter or exit a building, someone will open the door for me, which is really nice. When that happens, I always say, “Thank you.” However, on occasion, before I even have the chance to say […]
Eileen’s Lesson: You should write a book about all of these HR lessons.

“I love your newsletters. You should write a book.” That’s what people have told me for years. Guess what? After going back and forth with my awesome marketing team at Incite Creative, I did. It was easy peasy, or it should have been. I have had years of material to work with. But some of that […]
Time to take a temperature check of your tools?

Happy February! In Maryland, the weather has had its ups and downs, causing a lot of people to come down with illnesses. Not fun! This reminds me of being sick as a child with what seemed to be a stubborn fever. My mother took my temp erature when I first got ill – 103 degrees. As the […]
2025 Leadership Tips from a 5-Year-Old

Happy New Year! A few years ago, I spent a day on a college campus with my cousin and his then 5-year-old. It’s been a while since I spent the day with a toddler, but here’s what I re-learned: They can be boundless balls of energy and then just crash. They can put together multiple […]
Eileen’s Lesson: Resolve to Simplify: 15 Tips for 2025

What is your New Year’s resolution? In 2024, mine was to simplify my life. As a result, my husband and I downsized from our 3,000 square foot house of 31 years to a 1,200 square foot condominium. I’m not going to lie; it seemed like a nearly impossible feat this time last year. Thirty-one years, […]
Eileen’s Lesson: Are you keeping peace within your pack?

My husband and I are little dog people. So is my aunt. However, my brother and his wife are big dog people. One night, we had a family dinner, and everyone brought their dogs — two small and one big dog. It was the first time all three dogs were together, as my brother’s dog was still […]
Eileen’s Lesson Halloween Horror Tales: Is “groupthink” casting a spell on your team?

Can you imagine turning your back for one second on your 4-year-old only to find him lunging out the garage side door of your house? In a flash, he grabs a broom, using the stick side to click the garage door opener. He then runs over to grab the lid of the garage door, allowing […]