How to build a team that doesn’t melt under pressure..

Eileen’s Lesson: Building a team that doesn’t melt under pressure. Hubby and I recently took a trip to Vermont. While there, we decided that we absolutely had to visit the Ben and Jerry’s Factory. Now, if you know me, you know that I have weird food allergies, and many times, certain processed dairy products […]
How Making Assumptions Can Lead to Unfinished Decisions

Eileen’s Lesson: How Making Assumptions Can Lead to Unfinished Decisions When my son was learning how to drive, we would go to various places across the state of Maryland for practice. One day, I asked him, “Why don’t we take the highway and head to your favorite Tex-Mex place for lunch?” He said, “Great idea.” […]
How Synced Are You and Your Team?

My cousins and I rarely exchange holiday gifts, but one year, a picture I took of them with my children spoke to me, so I framed it. Little did I know that they had the same print framed and gave it to me that year. When we all opened our gifts, we screamed so hard […]
Do you have a “Jamie Tartt” on your team?

Eileen’s Lesson: Do You Have a “Jamie Tartt” on Your Team? I recently discovered the Apple TV series Ted Lasso. The show is about a European Football (aka soccer) team named AFC Richmond. In the first season, a character named Jamie Tartt is a star footballer but challenging to work with. He is arrogant […]
Workplace camaraderie: How technology has changed the way we build it.

Eileen’s Lesson: How technology has changed the way we build workplace camaraderie. When my kids were little, we told them we didn’t have VCRs when we were their age. They then said, “How did you watch your videos?” When we said, “Well, there weren’t any videos to watch,” they looked at us in horror. It […]
Should the squeakiest wheel always get the grease?

When I was younger, I went with some friends to a party; this was pre–Google Maps, Waze, etc. Sitting in the back seat, I heard them discussing the directions and something about, “Are we going west?” It was around 5 p.m., so I looked up, saw the sun behind us, and said, “We’re going […]
🤔 What is the key to success? Find out inside.

Eileen’s Lesson: Compromise is the Key to Success This past week, my husband and I celebrated 35 years of marriage. Yay us! In today’s world, that is an exceptionally long time. I’m often asked, “What’s the secret?” Well, I don’t think there’s a secret. There’s no one size fits all or formula, so much […]
🎉 Employee appreciation — for you or for them?

My youngest recently graduated college. It was a pretty exciting and proud moment. Because of his major, awards, and whatnot, there were separate ceremonies on four days. My hubby and I attended all of them, made appropriately embarrassing bragging comments (still am), bought the overpriced pictures, had a luncheon for family, and just gushed […]
🐝 Here’s how to avoid getting stung by HR issues.

I got permission to share this story from a grade schooler. This is his “a-ha” moment and is a good reminder for managers too. My Stick-in-the-Hole Moment I was playing on the swings at the park when I got the idea of climbing a tree. So I found a sturdy tree and was about to […]
Eileen’s Lesson: 💐 A Mother’s Day Message for Managers

When my daughter was about 10 years old, she once said to me, “I haven’t gotten my allowance in a while.” My response? “You haven’t done your chores in a while either. Do you think there is a connection?” As managers, if our employees don’t do their work, we can’t simply not pay them. However, […]